I Was Ignoring 75% of My Closet—These Are the 12 Pieces I Kept

Photo Credit:@sarahbrezel why women only wear 20% of their closet

Photo Credit:@sarahbrezel

A few weeks ago, I came back from the most beautiful vacation in Santa Monica. I can’t explain what the eye-opener was — maybe it was the ocean air, maybe it was seeing myself outside my everyday routine — but when I got home, I went on a full-on purge.

First, I tackled my bathroom cabinet and threw away skincare I had been holding onto for five years. Then I turned to my closet… and got ruthless.

I’m talking sweatpants, bodysuits, random “maybe someday” pieces — all gone. I realized I was in a completely different space in life, but my closet was still giving me flashbacks to an old version of me. And while I’m all for aspirational dressing, there’s a fine line between being inspired and having a wardrobe that doesn’t fit your actual life.

When I looked closely, I was wearing maybe 25% of my clothes. The rest was just… there. So, I listed what I could on Poshmark, donated the rest, and decided to start fresh. Here’s what I replaced — and what’s now earning a permanent spot in my wardrobe.

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1. A Stockpile of Sweatpants → Barrel-Leg Sweats That Feel Intentional

Old sweatpants made me feel sad (and not in a cute, cozy way). Now I have a few barrel-leg pairs that feel styled even when I’m lounging.

Barrel Leg Sweatpant

Barrel Leg Sweatpant

$34.99

2. Too Many Bodysuits → Actual Shirts I Can Wear Anywhere

I love a sleek, tucked-in bodysuit — but I had zero real tops. Now I have shirts with interesting cuts and fabrics that don’t require the bodysuit commitment.

3 Piece Short Sleeve Shirts

3 Piece Short Sleeve Shirts

$38.99

3. Cheap Everyday Bag → One Sturdy Carryall

Instead of rotating through random totes, I invested in a structured bag that works for errands, coffee dates, and workdays.

Genuine Leather Bucket Bag Shoulder Handbag

Genuine Leather Bucket Bag Shoulder Handbag

$82.88

4. Fast-Fashion Blazer → Tailored Year-Round Blazer

The old one pulled at the shoulders and wrinkled after one wear. My new blazer is cut perfectly and works in every season.

Double Breasted Mixed Media Blazer Avec Les Filles $159.00Current Price $159.00

Double Breasted Mixed Media Blazer

Avec Les Filles

$159.00

5. Pilled Sweaters → Midweight Knits That Last

No more thin, shapeless cardigans. My new knits hold their shape and keep me warm without the bulk.

Lounge Wrap Wool Knit Cardigan for Women Lilysilk

Lounge Wrap Wool Knit Cardigan for Women

Lilysilk

6. Worn-Out Jeans → Denim That Actually Fits My Waist

I let go of jeans that gaped in the back and replaced them with pairs that fit everywhere without tailoring.

Dojo Mid Rise Flare Jeans 7 For All Mankind $188.00Current Price $188.00

Dojo Mid Rise Flare Jeans

7 For All Mankind

$188.00

7. Oversized Hoodies → Polished Sweatshirts

Still cozy, but now they’re cropped or structured so they look intentional instead of “I gave up.”

Miramar Linen & Organic Cotton Polo Sweater Faherty

Miramar Linen & Organic Cotton Polo Sweater

Faherty

8. Old Ballet Flats → Loafers I Can Wear All Day

I needed something that could go from school drop-off to lunch without killing my feet.

The Lug Loafer Rothy's

The Lug Loafer

Rothy's

$229

9. Random Jewelry → Everyday Minimal Pieces

Instead of a tangled pile of tarnished pieces, I have a small collection of gold-tone items I wear daily.

Set of 2 Mesh Stretch Bracelets  Nordstrom  $50.00

Set of 2 Mesh Stretch Bracelets

Nordstrom

$50.00

10. Uncomfortable Heels → Block Heels

I said goodbye to “two-hour shoes” and replaced them with heels I can actually walk in.

Alliance Pointed Toe Pump (Women) Steve Madden Women $99.95Current Price $99.95

Alliance Pointed Toe Pump (Women)

$99.95

11. Shapeless Winter Coat → Belted Coat

One coat that works over everything beats three that don’t fit right.

The Cropped Charles Denim Trench Coat

Favorite Daughter

$328.00

12. Faded Black Dress → LBD That Makes Me Feel Good Every Time

No more “just in case” dresses that don’t actually work. My new one is ready for any dinner, meeting, or event.

The bottom line?

Your closet should support the life you’re living now — not the one you had five years ago. If something’s not making you feel confident when you put it on, it’s time to replace it with something that does.

Fadrid Ribbed Pleated A-Line Dress BOSS $495.00Current Price $495.00

Fadrid Ribbed Pleated A-Line Dress

BOSS

$495.00

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Autum Love is the founder of AutumLove.com and MensOutfitsDaily.com. With a BFA in Fashion Design and certifications in Body Image and Virtual Styling, she’s all about keeping style real, practical, and confidence-boosting. Autum’s mission is simple: to help women look good and feel even better, no matter where life takes them.

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