20 Fashion Rules That Are Outdated (And What to Wear Instead)
Photo Credit: Adri Roa
There’s this unspoken pressure to follow all the “rules” when it comes to getting dressed. You know the ones—don’t mix black and brown, avoid white after Labor Day, and for the love of fashion, never pair sneakers with dresses.
But let’s be honest: half of those fashion rules were made up by someone’s great aunt in 1972 and somehow got passed down like gospel. And if you’re in your 30s or beyond, you might still hear those rules echoing in your head while getting dressed.
Here’s the truth: style isn’t about rules—it’s about what makes you feel like your best self. So if you’ve ever second-guessed your outfit because you thought it “broke a rule,” this is for you.
Let’s break down 20 outdated fashion rules you can toss out today—and what to do instead.
If you need more help with getting your wardrobe together but are not sure where to start, grab this guide that I put together for you.
1. No White After Labor Day
Girl, who made this up? White jeans in winter with a chunky cream sweater and a camel coat? Chef’s kiss. Seasonal style is about fabric, not color.
2. Don’t Mix Black and Brown
This rule got left in 2006 where it belongs. Black and brown are both neutrals—together, they’re a vibe.
3. Your Bag Must Match Your Shoes
Unless you’re going to a themed 1950s party, this is a hard pass. Intentional mismatching looks modern and elevated.
4. Short Girls Can’t Wear Maxi Dresses
Says who?! Add a platform sandal and a high waistline and boom—you just added three inches.
5. Tall Girls Shouldn’t Wear Heels
Please. Stand tall, walk taller. Confidence looks good on every height.
6. Don’t Mix Gold and Silver Jewelry
We’re mixing metals now, babe. In fact, layering them is what makes it chic.
7. Curvy Women Shouldn’t Wear Prints
We’re not hiding. We’re entering the room in a floral bodycon and commanding attention. Thank you.
8. You Need to Dress Your Age
What does that even mean?! Dress for your mood, your vibe, your occasion—not a random number.
9. Avoid Horizontal Stripes
Wearing what makes you feel good is more flattering than anything. And yes, you can wear stripes.
10. Leggings Aren’t Real Pants
Tell that to every stylish mom running errands and looking cute doing it. It’s all about how you style them.
11. Heels Make You Look More Polished
Comfortable flats and loafers can be just as stylish. Blisters aren’t a flex.
12. Big Girls Can’t Wear Crop Tops
We’re done with that narrative. If it fits, if it feels good, wear it.
13. Athleisure Is Only for the Gym
Girl, half of your favorite influencers made this their entire aesthetic. A matching workout set + trench? That’s a LOOK.
14. Sequins Are Only for New Year’s Eve
Wrong again. Tuesday afternoon iced coffee in a sequin skirt? Say less.
15. Jeans Shouldn’t Have Rips After a Certain Age
Distressed denim is for everyone. You’re grown—you can do what you want.
16. Only Wear Neutrals for a Classic Wardrobe
Color is not the enemy. A bold red or deep green can be just as timeless.
17. You Need a Lot of Clothes to Be Stylish
One word: curation. Fewer pieces, more versatility = smarter wardrobe.
18. Don’t Repeat Outfits
We’re not celebs at the Met Gala. Repeat that outfit, rewear those jeans, remix those pieces.
19. You Can’t Mix Patterns
Yes you can. Start with stripes and florals—it’s not as scary as it sounds.
20. You Have to Follow Every Trend to Be Stylish
Girl. Style > trends. Trends fade. Your personal style is forever.
Fashion “rules” were made to be rewritten—and that’s exactly what we’re doing. Wear what makes you feel confident, comfortable, and completely yourself.
If you loved this list, check out our other no-BS guides like The Simple Style Fixes That Will Instantly Improve Your Outfits and How to Spot High-Quality Clothing
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